orgasm control

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I truly believe one of the most simple yet pure ways a submissive can surrender to their Goddess is through pleasure control (or orgasm control.) Sexual pleasure is one of the most basic human functions. For most of us, sex feels great. We crave it, fantasize about it, seek it out. Some of us are insatiable, constantly looking for the next experience or gratification. Some desire one partner they can put all their trust in, learning about each other through curiosity and growth every step of the way. Regardless of your wishes and your sex drive, surrendering control of one of the most intimate aspects of yourself is a big decision. I find it immensely sensual and a huge turn on to be given that kind of power.

This feeling was very thought provoking to Me because it brought up a potential contradiction in My beliefs. Being polyamorous, I had a hard time understanding disallowing your submissive to play freely with whoever they chose. It is naive to think any human will be able to maintain sexual (or otherwise) attraction to only one person. The more I thought about it, the more I realized, that is not even the idea in question here. It is not about hoarding My subs all to Myself and cutting off their oxygen to breathe a sense of pleasure in others. It is about training, obedience, loyalty, care, and control. The thought of letting My sub play with another is a turn on for Me. But even more so, it turns Me on to be the decision maker in allowing a situation where My sub will experience pleasure. It gives Me the capability to let go and allow them to experience things on their own, knowing I am still with them, guiding and nurturing them. When a sub feels loved, accepted and cared for, they will come back full of joy and affection like the good puppy I trained them to be.

Many take monogamy as the standard for any type of relationship, but most don’t mention the rules on the submissive’s masturbation habits. Again, I think being given this type of control is extremely hot. Even if you aren’t the type of person to want to have sex with multiple people (or anyone at all, if your D/s relationship doesn’t include that,) nearly everyone still masturbates. I mean, you probably wouldn’t even be on this site if that statement didn’t apply to you. 😉 Pleasure and orgasm are powerful things. They can relax you, build intimacy with your partner, help you let go of control, or they can also easily control you. I have found many men to have issue with the latter. It is true, the release can easily become addictive, habitual, and mechanical. This is one of the reasons the sex lives of many couples eventually fizzles out. When pleasure and orgasm are taken for granted, they become an expected demand rather than a sensual gift. It becomes harder and harder to reach satisfaction, and eventually one begins to act out.

If a submissive spends too much time masturbating to get a quick fix, they inevitably will find it difficult to bring their best to the bedroom. I am a firm believer in self exploration to learn how to be a better partner, but many tend to abuse that potential. If you are simply jerking off to release with no thought, you are tiring your body without exercising your mind. Showing up to playtime lacking passion and creativity is a turn off for all involved, and will eventually lead to boredom and resentment.

Part of the beauty and appeal of D/s relationships is the ability for the sub to trust the wisdom of their Dom/me. Dominants are caretakers and protectors, providing guidance and training to their subs. Something as basic as requiring a submissive to ask permission before touching themselves can go great lengths in deepening a bond and heightening sexual and energetic pleasure. It builds gratitude and appreciation not only for the physical sensations, but for the connection. When a sub knows their pleasure is in the hands of another, the feelings associated with the entire thing become a shared experience. Not just the release, but the anticipation, frustration, excitement, reliance, suspense and relief. It holds the potential to be so much more than just a 2 minute quickie in the bathroom!

Put yourself to the test with My new chastity and orgasm control series.

Pt 1 - Try Lasting One Week
Part 1 – Try Lasting One Week

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Part 2 – Patience Has Its Reward

It Gets Harder Before It Gets Easier

Part 3 – It Gets Harder Before It Gets Easier

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Part 4 – Orgasm is a Privilege

Hello again lovers and losers.  I have been so busy, I’ve hardly had any chance to update.

My Clips4Sale and Clipvia femdom clip stores have been blowing up lately.  I’m topping the charts in many categories on C4S including: #5 in MindFuck, #6 in Financial Domination and Forced Feminization, #7 in Orgasm Control and #8 in Height Humiliation.  As well as #7 Top Store at Clipvia.  I’ve released 12 new clips since My last post here.  Click if you dare, but prepare to be overwhelmed by devious humiliation tasks and roleplays, intense financial fuckery, seductive, powerful hypnosis, evil blackmail fantasy, and plenty of foot fetish to drive you wild.  I have gotten so much incredible feedback on My clips recently.  I love trying out new kinks & fetishes, and learning all I can about the ones I already know and adore.

One new fetish I have been playing with is height humiliation.  A perfect one for Me, being the tall, powerful woman I am.  My height has always stood out to others.  I love the sense of dominance it automatically gives Me over everyone else.  It’s such a simple way to control others around Me.  All I have to do is walk into a room, and heads are sure to turn.  Even more so when I slip into a pair of high heels or boots.  At 5’9” and a half, I tower over nearly all women, and many men, too!  I smile smugly, as I watch them stare up at Me.  I can see in their eyes they are intimidated, yet also aroused.  I love it.  It is just another example of how I was born naturally, perfectly powerful.

I filmed a clip, laughing at and making fun of short little men.  In the clip, I’m wearing My ultra tall, 8 inch Pleaser platform sandals.  I measure in at an incredible 6’5”.  Rocks your world, doesn’t it?  You have no choice but to bow down.

tall, powerful goddess in high heel platforms

69 Inches Out of your League – 5 min – $9.99
…Did you say something to Me, shorty? Wait, are you seriously trying to talk to Me? Ugh, as IF! A tiny little loser like you would never stand a chance with a sexy, powerful, 5’9 tall Princess like Me. You’re not a real man. You are a second class citizen. It’s time for you to learn your place.

*Giggles* Awwww I love it.  Another fetish I’m enjoying is ruined orgasms.  Ohhh yes, you heard Me right.  Can it get any more evil?  I think not.  I’m not sure which one I love more, this or chastity.  With chastity, you freaks feel the ache in your balls for days, weeks, months – however long I desire keeping you locked up for.  With ruined orgasms, your pleasure or pain is still in My hands.  I can still keep you locked up for as long as I want, but when I finally decide to release you, you may regret I ever did!  Every detail of how you jerk your cock is up to Me.  How fast, how slow, and most importantly, when you are allowed to cum.  I’ll give you a countdown, and you better be ready for what comes next.  Will I allow you to let go and feel that sweet release?  Or will I force you to abruptly cut the pleasure short, leaving you with an ache that can only be described as CRUEL!  Your cock will feel sore and swollen, as if I took My cute size 10 foot to it and kicked.  The worst part about it?  You stupidly gave Me complete control over your cock and your orgasms, so this utter DENIAL is all you’ll have to fantasize about until I decide you deserve to stroke again.  Get used to your balls feeling consistently blue… 😉

I have been meeting so many new play things.  I am highly amused with how easy it is to brainwash them into a deep addiction to Me.  It’s so hilarious and satisfying.  I’ve been getting more into hypnosis, in addition to brainwashing.  I have to say, I am really into it.  My hypno clips are some of My absolute favorites.

Seductive Hypno Goddess Tempting You

Suggestive Trance – 17 min – $19.99
Gaze into My bright blue eyes. Focus on the sound of My voice. Allow Me to take you into a deep state of relaxation. Your mind will be completely open to any and all of My suggestions. I have the answer to all your problems. Are you ready to accept your new truth?

Blonde FinDomme Princess in Mini Skirt

Completely Financially Owned – 13 min – $19.99
You deeply desire to be trained and molded into the perfect pay slave. My persuasive therapy will do just that. Put on your headphones, relax, and let My voice fill your mind. It feels so good to follow My every command. Watch this clip every day. Soon, you will be a mindless pay puppet, just like you’ve always dreamed of.

Let Me deep inside your mind…

Seductive Blonde Domme in Shiny Skirt

What you Should Do – 15 min – $19.99
You are desperate to please Me, to serve Me, but clueless as to how. Do you want to know how to get My attention? Are you hungry for satisfaction? Listen carefully. I have the answer to all your desires. I have exactly what you want, need and crave. It’s so easy. Buy this clip. I’m waiting for you. I’m ready to guide you.

I have a slave boy who comes to Me every weekend, aching to be controlled.  He comes to Me so weak already, it is just a simple, fun game for Me.  It’s quite entertaining.  He brings a bottle of liquor and the desire to be USED.  I made a few intoxicating clips with this theme in mind. 😉

Horny Long Legs

Weaken your Senses – 5 min – $9.99
I know you’re home alone tonight with a drink in your hand. You’re feeling easy to manipulate, and ready for excitement. You want to be used. You NEED it. Drink more and MORE for Me, loser!!! Get stupid weak!!!

Pink Vinyl Skirt Blonde Mistress

Get Dangerously Weak – 8 min – $9.99
You just can’t stay away. You know what I’m capable of, but you are too weak to care. We’ve been playing our little dr1nking games again and you are fully dazed and overcome by My power. You’re completely helpless, just how I like you. I’ve got one more task for you. Let’s see how you do.

I even made a 3 clip series called “Give In Tonight” for all of you lonely losers who most certainly will be home alone each and every weekend – cruising for porn like a pathetic masturbation addict.

FemDom Princess in Shiny Metallic Pink Dress

Give In Tonight – Part 1 – 9 min – $9.99
Another lonely weekend night for you, loser. No plans, no friends, no lover. Looks like another pathetic night in for you and your stupid cock. Here’s a thought – why don’t you spend it with Me? Sounds like trouble, but aren’t you curious as to what I’ve got planned for you? Buy this clip and come find out…

Financial Domination Princess Kelly Sexy Ass

Give In Tonight – Part 2 – 9 min – $9.99
Stroke that cock for Me, pervert. Let Me use you however I please. Hand over all control and be My bitch tonight. You know you can’t resist Me. You WILL give in to My every demand.

Humiliatrix in Tight Shiny Pink Dress

Give In Tonight – Part 3 – 7 min – $9.99
You wanna cum for Me, freak? I know you do. Your orgasms belong to ME, and I will give them to you as I wish. Buy this clip. You desperately need to cum for Me.

Every day is an adventure for Me.  I love every minute of it.

In other news, I put in My application to rent a new house.  It is in a highly competitive area so let’s hope I made a good impression.  I really love it.  The master bedroom is pretty big with pretty blue and green painted walls.  It looks very classy and gorgeous – it will be a great place to film and a nice place for Me to relax and do sessions.  I will definitely be needing some new furniture if I get the house.  It’s great because the furniture I want will match perfectly with the room.  Here is one example of a couch I want.  I’ve added a Home Wishlist on Amazon and will gladly take gift card tributes sent to sexykellysunshine@yahoo.com to go towards My new furnishings.

Blue Velvet Lounge

Pool Blue Velvet Double Arm Tufted Chaise Lounge – $427

Talk soon, boys. 😉